Wednesday, December 20, 2017

I Tell Myself

I called last night.
At 2am.

I was never a drunk dialer before you.
What is it about you?

There's always a chance you'll answer.
At least that's what I tell myself.

Just like I tell myself there's a chance I'll see you on the street.
Remember that time? 
I wasn't paying attention. 
I didn't see you 
walking straight towards me.
You ran up,
grabbed my face,
gave me the quickest, fiercest kiss

to which my response was to squeal 
with surprise and delight. 
And then you were gone.
It was a moment in the woods
as Sondheim would say. 
People around us thought you were crazy. 
I thought you were amazing.

You didn't answer.
I've been told the worst thing you can do to someone is ignore them.

I tell myself it's for the best.

I tell myself there's some part of you that still cares about me.
I tell myself that's why you ignore me.
I tell myself that you're doing what's best for us.
I tell myself that there's nothing more to say.
I tell myself it's done.
I tell myself to move on.
I tell myself to stop.
But when's the last time you took your own advice?

Sunday, December 17, 2017

Whatever I Want

60 days without you.
Two months.
A lot can happen in 60 days.

What do you want, Kels?
That was the question you'd always ask me.

Whatever you want.
That was the response.

If I was the one responding, it was because I didn't want to make a choice.
I was afraid of making the wrong choice. 
Choosing the wrong restaurant 
Or the wrong glass of wine
Or the wrong dessert.
I don't think you even like dessert that much 
But we always ordered dessert 
Because you know I loved it.
I don't love it that much anymore. 
In case you were wondering.

If you were the one responding, it was because you were trying so hard to make me happy.
I couldn't have made the wrong choice.
You'd sit down at any restaurant,
Drink any glass of wine
Share any dessert 
As long as it was with me.
Because you wanted me to have whatever I wanted.

Whatever I want.

It looks so simple when you write it out.

That's funny.

Monday, December 11, 2017

It's Happening

It's been 54 days.
And I can feel it happening.

It's in the small things.
Like the pint of key lime gelato I randomly bought for you.
Because it's your favorite.
Because our late night routine often included eating gelato and bitching about work.

Well, I guess I would bitch. You would just hold me and laugh with me and tell me it's not a big deal and that I'm the best little waitress ever. And then I'd bitch about how I wish we still worked together because we worked brilliantly together and having you there made everything better. It meant I got guaranteed time with you where we were working towards a common goal. Even if that goal was just turning the tables. We were never more in-sync than we were during a busy service and we made an awesome team.

So I have this pint of gelato still in my freezer.
Key lime isn't my favorite.
But I can't bring myself to throw away perfectly good gelato.
There's obviously more to it than my fear of wasting gelato.
Whatever it is,
It's starting to creep out.
Because every time I have opened the freezer for the past 54 days,
You're there.
You're in my freezer.

I've been so good.
I've been pushing forward.
Now I look around and start seeing you in places I forgot.
It's happening.

We never made a huge deal out of Christmas. I remember the night we celebrated our first Christmas. December 18, 2015. I only know the date because I took a picture of you. It was the first picture I'd ever taken of you even though we'd been dating for a few months and it was always my favorite. I sent it to my parents and made it your contact photo. If you ever call me, this is the picture that will pop up on my screen because I haven't gotten around to deleting your contact yet. And while my gift was purely practical, I remember your gift was much more sentimental. It was a West Elm piggy bank. At work, everyone called me a truffle pig because I sold white truffles on the reg. I thought it was the most perfect thing and when I read the card that came with it I cried. I hadn't cried opening a gift since I got an iPod when I was nine.

So the piggy bank is sitting on my desk next to my bed.
I keep it there because I still use it.
Because I can't bring myself to throw away a perfectly good piggy bank.
There's obviously more to it than the issue of relocating all my loose change.
Whatever it is,
It's trying to break out of me.
Because today, after 54 days, I look at that stupid piggy bank
And I see you.
You're there.

I've been thinking about you.
I miss you.
Is that ok.
I just miss you.
But I think it's happening.


Thursday, November 9, 2017

Time and Space

Time is not sacred. 
They say Time is money. 
But money is not sacred.
Time has no real value to me. 

Not like Space.
Space is different.
Space is precious. 
Space is sacred. 

I pick and choose who and what I make Space for.

I picked you.
I chose you.
I decided to make Space for you.

I held back no part of me.
You saw it all.
The good, the bad, the ugly.
The past, the present, the future.
The attractive, the absurd, the insecure.

You took it all.
You kept taking it.
And I kept giving because to me, giving is loving.
But after a while,
I had nothing left to give you
Because you never loved me in the way I deserved.

You gave me Time.
You made Time for me.
I mistook Time for Space.
I took whatever I could get from you
Because I was so wrapped up in you.

You held back from me.
I only saw what you wanted me to.
And no matter how many times I tried,
You would not let me see it all. 

Maybe he just doesn't have as much Space to give as you do.
Maybe he speaks a different love language.
Maybe he really is trying the best he can.
Maybe you should stick it out just a little longer.
Maybe you should just give him Time.
Maybe this is what people mean when they say a relationship is work.

I tried being patient.
I tried kicking.
I tried screaming.
I tried begging.
I tried manipulating.
I tried guilting.
I tried blowing it all up.
I tried loving.

I loved you so hard.

By the end,
I had become someone that was so lost.
I was so lost in you.
I was killing myself trying to breathe life into something that was already dead.
I was so afraid that without us, I would have nothing.
I was terrified of the empty Space that you would leave behind.

And it was terrifying.
But only for a moment.

Now, here I am.

I am taking back my Space.

Friday, November 3, 2017

My Cocktail Server Experiment

I was trying to put a fussy 6-month old down for a nap in a chic Williamsburg apartment that I will never be able to afford myself when I get a text from my manager.

Hey, wanna play cocktail server tonight? 
You can wear all black.

I hate my work uniform and the idea of getting to look good at work was exciting.

Our clientele like their cocktail servers just the way you'd expect. 
Young, thin, beautiful and dressed like sex on a stick.

I knew exactly what I was signing up for.

Time to break out that little black dress.
The one that's just short enough. 
The one that's tight in all the right places.
The one that says, "Look, I'm getting over you."

Lucky for me that I had done my hair that morning. 
All I had to do was wash out the baby spit-up.

I always say my hair is my best feature.

I kept my makeup simple. 
Eyeliner, highlight, blush. 
I'd add my standard red lip right before service.

War paint.

I looked good. 

And I knew it.
When you know it, 
The world becomes a different place.

Hello, world.
It's been a while.

I got to work and the heads start turning. 

Any woman who says she dresses for the approval of other women is lying to herself. 
We dress for men. 
Or at least my shiny, newly single ass does.

My coworkers were all seeing me in a new light.
They couldn't stop staring.

It was like the way he looked at me that first time.

The night picked up steadily. 
We were well into service, 
When a group of 4 middle aged men find their way into my section.
The very first thing they say to me,
"Do we need to sign a permission slip for you to be serving us?" 

It takes me 3 seconds to size up these guys.
I determine that they are a non-threat.
Whatever that means.
I laughed off their stupid remark and threw it back in their goddamn faces. 

"I'm not telling you how old I am but wanna know what I'm dressing up as for Halloween?"

"Tell us!"

"Jailbait. So watch yourself."

In that moment, I decided cocktail serving isn't for me.

Thursday, October 26, 2017

Last Night

Last night I went out.

It's been a while. 
No agenda, no strings. 
No one to answer to. 
No one to come home to.

Last night I put on a tight black dress.

You never saw this dress. 
It's an attention seeking dress.
It's a "Fuck you, I'm fabulous" dress.

Last night I let my hair go.

No primping, no fussing.
The way you liked it.
It always looked best after rolling around with you.

Last night I flirted in the elevator.

It was harmless.
But it was empowering. 
And it was liberating. 
And it was fun.

Last night I drank negronis on a rooftop.

I made new friends.
We closed down the bar.

Last night I walked into a wine bar just before last call.

What do I see?
Champagne magnums and a cute somm.
My dream.

Last night I got giddy over a glass of wine.

That cute somm saw me sitting by myself.
Everyone else was out smoking.
He poured me a taste.
It was electric.
I loved it.
I made a witty observation.
There was laughter.
It was the exact type of exchange you and I used to have.
But it wasn't you.
It's not you anymore.

Last night I took a step away from you.

Everything I did reminded me of you.
Of us.
I couldn't stop thinking about you.
But something shifted.

Last night I started to let you go.

Friday, August 18, 2017

The World's Best

You texted me late last night and I didn't respond for a whole six hours.

I wasn't sure I wanted to see you. 

But in usual form, I responded. The exchange that followed went on as if nothing was wrong. 

I can't resist you no matter how hard I try. 
We do this. 
We fight and we move on. 
Like it never happened. 
Maybe there's something to be said for that.

I haven't told people I've been seeing you again. It's my secret. My secret source of joy and sadness all wrapped up in one. I derive pleasure out of being tortured and it's all the more sweeter because it's not supposed to be. 

Everybody says don't. 
But I'm not listening. 
I'm not listening to them. 
I'm listening to me.

I'm in rehearsal all day. I am focused. I am present. But somewhere in the back of my mind I wonder what you're planning.

You love having a plan.
I love trying to figure out the plan. 
If I ask enough questions or catch you off guard, you'll cave. 
You can't resist me either. 
At least the lack of resistance goes both ways.

A few hours and I've worn you down. You tell me we're going to the fried chicken place down the street from my apartment.

Come again?

This was our first "date night" in a while. I knew you had plans later on in the night so it made sense that we weren't doing anything crazy but I was hoping we'd at least go somewhere that I don't order delivery from on a regular basis. Alas, I love fried chicken so I try to get on board with it.

We decide to meet there. I time my arrival so I'll be the second one there but you still haven't figured out which trains stop where so you're a little behind. At this point, I'm ravenous. I take myself for a walk around the block and buy Reese's peanut butter cups at the closest Duane Reade. Because that makes sense.

You catch me crossing the street eating said peanut butter cup. You smile and starting laughing. You look at me and say, "What are you doing? You're ridiculous. I love you."

And just like that, you melted my heart. 
The one that I have been steeling against you. 
You put your arm around my waist. 
You hold the door. 
I didn't stand a chance.

You order a bottle of rosé and give back the food menus. The rosé is confusing. It's dark and fruity but light. An unexpected combination. Like us. The lack of food happening is also confusing. 

I thought we were having dinner? 
I'm fucking starving.

We finish half the bottle and you're pulling out your phone to call for a car to take us somewhere else. 

So now it's around 4:45pm and I haven't had a proper meal all day. That rosé hits me fast and now I'm chatting idly about nothing important. You just listen. 

I can feel you smiling. 
You sit close to me. 
You put your arm around me. 
You pull me closer. 
You press your nose to the side of my face. 
It feels right.
It feels so damn good.

And now I care less about what's coming next. I stop trying to figure it out. I just want to live in this moment of us. I don't want to think about what's best for me or what the future looks like or what everyone else says.

We get out of the car and start walking. You tell me we're going to Shake Shack. Cute! I love burgers and I love fries and I love you. But you steer me past the start of the line. We walk across the park and stop in front of a building I don't recognize.

I look up and we're standing in front of the best restaurant in the world.

It's Eleven Madison Park.

"We're having dinner here??"

I look at your face. You are very pleased with my reaction. You got me good.

I'm so surprised. 
I can't believe it.
I'm not confused anymore.
I'm so happy I could cry.
This is exactly where I want to be.

There is a small group of people waiting outside the restaurant. We are all waiting for the doors to open. Bar seats are limited and a hot commodity. It's also the last week of service before they close for the summer.

The doors open. We walk in and grab two seats at the end of the bar. I spend the next five minutes turned around in my barstool trying to take it all in. The dining room is stunning. The massive windows look out on the park and the tall ceilings make the whole space feel grand as hell. The army of a staff is circled in the back of the dining room. They're doing their pre-shift meeting. A manager walks into the circle, says something, and the entire staff calls back, "Good evening."

Holy shit.

The meal is a dream. It's a retrospective tasting menu of the most iconic dishes of years past. Each course is a knockout. Every plate, every bite, every sip is perfect. 

Before dessert, I decide I want bubbles. I opt for the cheapest sparkling option. The bartender pours me a taste and before the glass touches my lips you ask him if I can also taste the one of the champagnes.

A few seconds later, I'm sipping a very fine, very expensive glass of champagne.

Like all good things, the meal eventually ends. You don't even let me see the check, which is probably for the best because I might have gone into a state of shock. On the way out, perhaps to soften the blow from how much money you just spent, each guest is thanked profusely and given a small gift- a jar of granola for breakfast the next day. 

I love fine dining.

We get to the train and you go your own way. 

My heart sinks a little when you leave.
Is that silly?
I never want this night to end.
I want to do it all over again.

It's a beautiful evening so I decide to walk home. 
Somewhere between the Flatiron building and my apartment I make a decision.

Everybody says don't. 
But I'm not listening.
I'm not listening to them.
I'm listening to me.
I will surrender to love. 

I ate that granola for breakfast every morning for the next few days. 
Never have I loved a jar of granola more.

Sunday, June 4, 2017

Things Are Different Now

Remember that bar? 

The one where you first saw me? I mean really saw me.  
I haven't been back to that place in almost two years. 
I can't hear the name of it without think about us.

Well tonight, they wouldn't let me in. 

When's the last time I went somewhere that asked for my I.D.?!
My usual Saturday night is spent running around the dining room trying not to kill someone.
The funny thing is I knew they were going to be carding. 
The funnier thing is I knew I wasn't going to get in. 
The funniest thing is I didn't even want to get in.

After a rejection I was fully prepared for, I opted for Plan B.
After a quick walk through the Lower East Side, I got to where I wanted to be.
 The look on your face when you saw me was a rejection I wasn't prepared for.

In the beginning, your face would light up when I walked in.
I took extra time getting ready if I knew you'd be there.
I was a secret.
Things are different now.

I make a quick excuse for why I'm there.
It's a restaurant in New York City.
I don't need a fucking excuse to be there.

Bartender asks if anyone is joining me. 
Nope- just me. 
Bartender asks if I have allergies or aversions. 
Yup- I hate raw celery.

Part of me wonders if they're asking because they want to send extras.
I want to believe they know I'm special. 
We don't always get what we want.
Things are different now.

I try to catch your eye as you float around the room.
I try to connect for just a moment.

Remember when I was the only one you could see?
Now it's like you'd rather do anything else than see me.
It's like you're looking past me, through me, around me.
Things are different now.

I hate this.
I hate everyone around me.
I hate that they're getting the best of you.
I hate that I'm getting none of you.
And I hate hearing your laugh.

You can hear it from across the room.
It's the most genuine, goofy sound.
It used to be one of my favorite sounds.
Things are different now.

I tell myself, 
"Don't look eager. 
Don't look lonely. 
Don't look desperate.
Don't let your disappointment show."

I try to hide.
I try to make no fuss.
I try to stop the waves of nostalgia.
Another bite of food. 
Another sip of sherry. 
It's not working.

Once late at night you said that you feel like I'm spying on you when I surprise you at work. 
It's the last thing I expected to hear.
It seemed like such a strange thing to say.
Things are different now.

Bartender strikes up a conversation.
He's nice.
He's handsome. 
He's worldly.
He's good at his job.

A good bartender is a dangerous thing.

Now I'm smiling.
Now I'm laughing.
Now I'm catching your eye.
Now I'm trying to hurt you too.

I really thought we could change.
I really thought we might have a chance.
That things could be different.

I leave without caring if you see me or not.
On my way home I hear a subway musician singing, 
"Oh Darling, please believe me. I'll never do you no harm."  
I want to believe it.
But I can't.

Everything is different now. 

Wednesday, May 31, 2017

The Most Romantic Thing

Do I remember that date last November?
We tried to do date night once a week. Working full-time front of house schedules didn't always allow for that. Getting the same night off was like winning the lotto, landing the jackpot. Not every date was special. Most of them were pretty ordinary. But every once in a while, there was one that I will always remember. Those nights felt like pure magic. 
Si, claro. It was right after Thanksgiving. I had spent the holiday with his family and even though I'd met everyone before- it was a big deal.
The wine we brought was from "us" even though he was the one that had picked it out and paid for it. He chose really well. We had Arnot-Roberts Trousseau. I love this bottle and it immediately takes me back to the beginning of us. I had never heard of Trousseau. We were at pre-shift and I remember listening to him describe what was in the glass. He sounded so smart and was so excited. It was perfectly charming and very endearing. I had such a crush. I took a sip, it was delightful. It was unlike anything I'd ever tasted. Delicate yet firm. Whimsical yet structured. It was delicious. Every time I see that bottle in a shop, I buy it. I just bought it yesterday.
I was wearing a beautiful dress. It's one of those dresses that I only pull out for special occasions and it means I'm wearing high heels for the night. 
He loved to tease me about my clothes and I loved to tease him with my clothes- a short skirt, a backless dress, a plunging neckline. Isn't that what great clothes are for?
I took a cab and timed my arrival perfectly. I knew he would already be there and I could make an entrance. 
He was always early. 
When I walked in the hostess immediately recognized me and gestured to the table where he was waiting. 
Mind you, I made a real effort. I pulled out the stops that night- I put on a great dress, I did my hair, I took time to put on makeup, I was wearing heels for goodness sake. But the look on his face when I walked in made it well worth the effort.
Three of us from work all got along and by chance had a night off together so we made a reservation to go to dinner. It was the middle of July and it was hot as hell. I had a million bobby pins in my hair all working to keep my crown braid secure as I navigated the subway stairs in my wedges. I remember exactly what I was wearing and how I was accessorized. We planned to meet at a bar around the corner for drinks beforehand. He was the first one there. I was second so he saw me walk in, and we had a moment in the woods. It was like he was seeing me for the first time. Seeing him see me was a thrill. I wanted him to look at me like that all the time. By the time our friend got there, I'd decided my crush was full-blown and he spent the next few days returning bobby pins/various accessories to me. 
We were seated in a corner booth so there was no chair to pull out but he got up and pulled out the table so I could slide gracefully into the booth. 
Every once in a while, I'm a sucker for some old school chivalry. 
The next few moments are a blur of standard restaurant greetings/banter with coworkers.
"Hi there, so great to have you in. May I start you with sparkling or still?"
"He likes sparkling, I'll take still." 
"You look beautiful." 
"Thank you so much. I'm excited to finally sit down for dinner."
He had brought his parents, his brother, even his roommates before I got a proper sit-down dinner. We came in for champagne and dessert at the bar for my birthday. That was different. We stopped by early in the evening before service really got going. The restaurant was empty. I had dropped in occasionally since then for delicious champagne and dessert but mostly to see him. Tonight was different. For starters, we weren't sitting at the bar.
Before I even have a chance to think about drinks, there's a bottle of Margeut Pere & Fils 'Shaman' Grand Cru Rosé Champagne being presented to me to taste. 
When we were working together, he would save me tastes of different bottles that he sold. We had a spot where we kept glasses lined up. Everyone knew those were his prize tastes and off limits. But not for me. They were little treats for me to enjoy throughout the night. Whenever he sold champagne, he would find me and make sure I got a taste right away. He just knew.
I accept the wine because it's delicious. As the glass is being poured, he notices that it's the last of the bottle. It had already been open for a while. Maybe from the night before?
He simply looks to the server and asks in the most humble way, "Hey, can you open a new bottle?"
He didn't come off annoyed or angry or pretentious to any extent. To me, the real ask was, "Hey man, help me impress this girl. She deserves the best. She's special. Please open a new bottle of champagne."
I thought it was the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for me.

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

My Stupid Heart

Look at the facts.
Be logical.
Listen to your parents.
Be reasonable.
Stop reaching out.
Be sensible.
It just takes time.
Give yourself time.

Two months into this new arrangement.
I hate it more and more each day.
I think about you every day.
I miss you all the time.
I hate everyone else.
I don't want these feelings.
I don't know what to do with them.
I wish you would take them away.

I wish for Saturday night all over again.
I smile just thinking about it.
That means something.
That has to count for something.
To me, it is everything.

My stupid heart.
It won't quit.
It holds on.
It is killing me.

Quarter Life Crisis

We need to have a talk.
Stop avoiding this.
Deal with it.
Figure it out.

What do you want?

You moved here almost 3 years ago to chase a dream. And along the way you fell in love. You fell in love with a world that you didn't even realize existed and it has completely swept you off your feet.

It's not your fault. The New World is a place of intelligence, hard work, charm, and grit. A world where you get to create experiences and memories that will stay with people. A world where the learning never stops. It challenges you every day. It brings fascinating, inspiring, beautiful people into your life. It's a full sensory experience. It's sensual and alluring and it woke you up somehow. It is not the world you have been planning for.

Can you live in two worlds at the same time?
Can you love them equally?
Can you give all of yourself to both?

Is there even enough of you to go around?

When will you have to decide?
How much longer can you juggle a double life?
What would happen if you made a choice?
What could you accomplish if you threw all your energy into one?

Would you pick the Old World that chews you up and spits you out over and over again? The world that makes you feel like a crazy person. The world that you believed so fiercely that you'd be a part of but doesn't seem to want you.

Or would you pick the New World? The world that you're afraid of fully committing to because what would people say? They'd say you couldn't cut it. You gave up.

But is it giving up?

There are people from the New World who whisper that you are talented. That you could make an impact here. That you have something you can't teach people. That you're really good.

The New World wants you.
Who doesn't want to be wanted?

And then there's him.

I don't know why.
It doesn't make sense.
Everybody says don't.

He is the gateway drug.
He's holding the door open.
He always held doors for me.


Morning After Musings

Where am I?

Do I still have friends?
How did I get home?

Where are my credit cards?

Wow, I took my make up off.
Except there's lipstick all over the pillowcase.

I'm such an asshole.

Coffee or water?
I'm starving.
Did I eat dinner?
Why am I such an idiot?

Where the fuck are my cards??

My roommate is going to kill me.

I don't even want to look at my call history.
I called 25 times.

Ok, guess I'll just cancel all the credit cards.
Ugh, now I have to memorize a new set of 16 digits plus expiration and security code.

Can I get a new ID online?
I've exceeded the number of times I can apply online.

Wow, my head hurts.
Why is it so bright out.

I hate myself.

Every cab driver in the city hates me too.

Who spent $31.13 at 7-Eleven?

Cards are definitely lost.


What is this bruise?

Let me respond to these people who asked if I made it home ok.
Ugh, I must've been really out of it.

How did that happen??
I know exactly how it happened.
Beer and tequila.
I'm an idiot.

Seamless is the greatest gift to mankind.

I'm just going to call and apologize.
Straight to voicemail.
Did you block my number?
I guess I'll send an email apology.
Is this stalking?
This is crazy.


But maybe I should just move to Spain.

Waking up alone sucks.
Waking up hungover and alone really sucks.

Cue the self-loathing.

At least my hair still looks good.

Fuck me.

I miss you.
All the time.

But especially this time.

Thursday, April 27, 2017

I Can't, I'm Sick

It all started on a Friday night...

This could be the opening line to a story far more interesting than this.

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I was at work on Friday night when I felt the first symptoms...a little stuffy, a little sore throat, a little achy. I decided to handle it like all my other problems in life- ignore it until it becomes impossible to ignore any longer.

So I go about business as usual except I up my daily dose of Vitamin C by approximately 1000% and take Zicam whenever I can remember, which isn't how it works most effectively in case you were wondering. But usually, that's
enough to kick any cold to the curb! This one, however, was special.

I have been home for the past 48 hours unable to breathe through my nose and counting down the minutes until I can take more pseudoephedrine.

And here's a list of some of my goals/accomplishments/activities.

1. I have only ordered delivery TWICE! Although I would be lying if I said Seamless wasn't open in another tab at this moment. I ordered super spicy ramen while watching the Chef's Table episode on Ivan Ramen. Life imitating my current Netflix series binge. Profound, I know.

2. I watched the entirety of 13 Reasons Why. Didn't cry once. Maybe it's the cold meds? Maybe I don't have a soul? You decide.

3. I made a CVS run and returned with a gallon of orange juice, which is now gone, and a pint of Ben and Jerry's, which is also gone.

4. I am having mixed feelings about Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt but the binge continues...

5. I played all the Broadway lotteries and LOST. It's probably for the best but STILL.

6. I have read all about the Whole 30 and will be so prepared when I finally decide to start but it can't be until I'm feeling at least 98% better so...stay tuned.

7. I have contemplated my life's purpose. Moving to Europe or embarking on an "Eat, Pray, Love"-esque quest were both seriously considered multiple times over.

8. I have done lots of Instagram stalking...surprise! My friends/people I follow have truly fabulous lives. Also, there definitely were a few slip-ups here and there so apologies for any random likes coming from me in the last few days! Oopsie.

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9. I have made myself feel incredibly guilty for not being able to exercise and even googled "best exercises to do while sick".

10. I have seriously contemplated buying a bunch of fruit to eat since I can't taste anything anyway. For those of you just joining me in life, fruit is my least favorite food category and I avoid it at all costs unless it's smothered in chocolate and even then, there's no guarantee I'll be fooled.  
11. I'm seriously considering asking Kleenex to sponsor me/hire me as their spokesperson since I seem doomed to be perpetually stuffy/chained to a box of tissues at all times.

We are now on Day 3 of quarantine and I was hoping I'd have funnier/more exciting things to write about than this but being sick is awful and really not that exciting. And to think I used to fake being sick when I was a kid just so I could have one of those grape flavored lollipops that me and only like two other people even liked! Well, lesson learned! 

Honestly...not sure what the lesson was/is but that can be said about a few things going on in my life currently. 

I would like to thank pseudoephedrine for giving me the courage/wreckless abandonment to get back to blogging. Also, thank you for helping me tackle that one scene in sophomore acting with Malcolm because it may be some of my best work to date.

Until next time!